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DSM-5-TR guide

The 10 Personality Disorders

Grouped into three clusters. Each pattern is inflexible, long-lasting, and causes real problems in relationships, work, or daily life.

Cluster A: Odd or Eccentric

"I don't trust people" / "I don't need people."

Paranoid Personality Disorder (PPD)

Core feature: Deep distrust and suspicion of others.

  • • Believes others are exploiting, deceiving, or harming them
  • • Questions the loyalty of friends and family
  • • Reluctant to confide in others
  • • Reads hidden threats into harmless comments
  • • Holds grudges for long periods
  • • Quick to perceive insults or attacks

How it may appear: Someone constantly suspects coworkers are plotting against them without evidence.

Schizoid Personality Disorder (SPD)

Core feature: Detachment from social relationships.

  • • Prefers solitude
  • • Little desire for close relationships
  • • Limited emotional expression
  • • Few interests in social or sexual experiences
  • • Appears indifferent to praise or criticism

How it may appear: A person who is content living alone and rarely seeks social interaction.

Schizotypal Personality Disorder (STPD)

Core feature: Unusual beliefs and eccentric behavior.

  • • Odd thinking or magical beliefs
  • • Unusual perceptual experiences
  • • Peculiar speech or appearance
  • • Social anxiety
  • • Suspiciousness
  • • Few close relationships

How it may appear: Someone who believes they can sense future events and behaves in notably eccentric ways.

Cluster B: Dramatic, Emotional, or Erratic

"My emotions and relationships are chaotic."

Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)

Core feature: Disregard for the rights of others.

  • • Repeated lying or manipulation
  • • Impulsivity
  • • Irritability and aggression
  • • Reckless behavior
  • • Lack of remorse
  • • Failure to conform to social norms

How it may appear: A person repeatedly deceives others for personal gain without guilt.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Core feature: Instability in relationships, self-image, and emotions.

  • • Intense fear of abandonment
  • • Rapid mood swings
  • • Unstable relationships
  • • Unclear sense of identity
  • • Impulsive behaviors
  • • Chronic feelings of emptiness
  • • Intense anger
  • • Self-harm or suicidal behaviors may occur

How it may appear: Relationships often alternate between idealizing and devaluing others.

Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)

Core feature: Excessive emotionality and attention-seeking.

  • • Discomfort when not the center of attention
  • • Dramatic emotional displays
  • • Uses appearance to attract attention
  • • Easily influenced by others
  • • Views relationships as more intimate than they are

How it may appear: Someone who constantly seeks reassurance, admiration, and attention.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

Core feature: Grandiosity and need for admiration.

  • • Inflated sense of self-importance
  • • Fantasies of success, power, or beauty
  • • Belief of being special or unique
  • • Requires excessive admiration
  • • Sense of entitlement
  • • Exploits others
  • • Limited empathy
  • • Sensitive to criticism

How it may appear: A person may expect special treatment and react strongly to perceived disrespect.

Cluster C: Anxious or Fearful

"I'm afraid of criticism, abandonment, or losing control."

Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD)

Core feature: Social inhibition due to fear of rejection.

  • • Extremely sensitive to criticism
  • • Avoids social situations
  • • Feelings of inadequacy
  • • Fear of embarrassment
  • • Desires relationships but avoids them

How it may appear: Someone who wants friends but avoids social opportunities because of fear of being judged.

Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)

Core feature: Excessive need to be cared for.

  • • Difficulty making decisions independently
  • • Needs reassurance from others
  • • Fear of separation
  • • Difficulty expressing disagreement
  • • Feels helpless when alone
  • • Quickly seeks new relationships when one ends

How it may appear: A person may rely heavily on others to make everyday choices.

Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD)

Core feature: Preoccupation with orderliness, perfectionism, and control.

  • • Excessive focus on rules and details
  • • Perfectionism that interferes with completing tasks
  • • Rigid standards
  • • Reluctance to delegate
  • • Overly devoted to work and productivity
  • • Stubbornness

How it may appear: Someone spends so much time perfecting a project that they never finish it.

Important: OCPD is different from OCD. People with OCD experience unwanted intrusive thoughts and compulsions, while people with OCPD generally see their perfectionism and need for order as appropriate or beneficial.

Personality Disorder – Trait Specified (PD-TS)

Used when someone has significant personality difficulties but doesn't fit neatly into one of the 10 disorders. Clinicians describe problem traits instead:

  • Negative affectivity — frequent negative emotions
  • Detachment — social withdrawal
  • Antagonism — hostility/manipulativeness
  • Disinhibition — impulsivity
  • Psychoticism — odd beliefs/perceptions

Quick summary

ClusterDisordersCore theme
AParanoid, Schizoid, SchizotypalOdd, eccentric, suspicious
BAntisocial, Borderline, Histrionic, NarcissisticDramatic, emotional, erratic
CAvoidant, Dependent, OCPDAnxious, fearful, controlling